Showing posts with label gratitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gratitude. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Got politics?


Delivery Room One

Midwives here run the show!  (Woot! Woot! Loud applause and deep respect!) Through the course of a normal delivery, there are no docs in the delivery rooms to assist, no respiratory therapists, no baby nurses, no body else but the laboring woman and the midwife.  They are excellent at what they do; they are competent, capable, loving  (in their stern sort of Caribbean way) & know how to get down to business.  Their laughter and joy allow one to move with ease through these hot and humid days.  I admire these women and hope to wander with such confidence one day.  Necessity is the mother of invention...

These midwives each have their own proverbial bag of tricks.  I want one of these! Much like Hermione Granger’s magic handbag, holding infinite bits and pieces to navigate one’s way through these variations of normal.  When infinite meets the end of the road, the docs will come to check out the situation and to offer additional guidance and support to what everyone hopes to be a healthy end.  And when it does, the happy dance that ensues motivates a rather large smile on my face.  I have yet to encounter anything other than the happy dance and do not look forward to the alternative.

The docs here are either ‘juniors’ (those that have not yet specialized) or “consultants” (some have been practicing here for a lifetime according to these ladies). They all “round” on these ladies throughout the week.  In addition, they see them “immediately” postpartum to check on their well-being, particularly if there are variations from normal.  The midwives and docs get along well and seem to have a very collegial relationship, I dare say even friendly and familiar.  I envy them.  I hope there is a day that I get to experience this in my own professional world, from a place of collaboration and mutual respect.

However, the autonomy of the midwives here is being threatened, as is the normalcy of pregnancy and childbirth.  I get a sense the proposed changes are coming from some higher up place and will impact the way that these women can care for the women in their ward.  Interventions and procedures that have historically been reserved for pathology are being considered for routine admissions.  Non-stress tests, for example, typically utilized to monitor fetal well being in the face of things like post-dates pregnancies, trauma, decreased fetal movement and other such concerns, are routinely performed on all low-risk, healthy admissions to the labor ward.  Some of these midwives have some very strong opinions about the way things are changing. I cannot blame them.

Discussions on the ward of creating a midwives association are reminiscent of those that have gone rounds in the states.  There is a “Midwifery Interest Group” here on St. Lucia and, in its infancy, is rather small in numbers.  “We don’t need a GROUP, we need and ASSOCIATION!!!” This coming from a woman whose passion is clear and commitment to autonomy, deep.  It is this kind of spirit, matched with her brilliance, that will motivate change. 

In other news...

I feel like a broken record here but have to give a shout out to the midwives and Sisters on the ward that have so warmly welcomed this brown eyed stranger replete with beaming (and perhaps foolish at times) smile, into their world.  I have been made to feel like part of their team, to enmesh myself into the weave of their fabric. 

They look out for me, urging caution while trying to avoid inspiring a riot of fear in my being.  Concern for my personal safety is their highest priority, followed second by their desire for my to have an abundant learning opportunity while I am here. These both saddled with a reminder that I must find time for “leisure” while I am in St. Lucia as the beauty is abundant.  All work and no play...

I take it all to heart.  “Work” in the hospital during the daylight hours, for now.  Most evenings are spent with a farewell to the day on the rooftop terrace, or in the pool (or both) communing with the bats as they pass swiftly by trying to navigate a dip or two while effectively navigating a path to avoid a collision with my head as I bob along in the cool water.

Looking forward to enjoying a mango or three soon enough, they are too green as yet but are blushing.  The bats have beaten me to the hanging fruit already. The trees are robustly full and promise (or perhaps tease) a deluge before I depart.  What a bounty it will be, if not for me then for the ladies who will be arriving here in May after I leave.
Tantalizing treats!


Thank you all for your continued support, donations and enthusiastic delight! 

Signing off in gratitude!

Rodney Bay



Saturday, March 17, 2012

Gratitude


Sitting here pondering how hard it has always been for me to ask people for “stuff,” for “things,” for money, among other things.  It’s a familiar place for me to reside...that place where it so much easier for me to give than to receive.  You know, that uncomfortable place that feels needy, or imposing?  It’s probably why I have only just recently reached out, as I have known about this trip for some weeks now

Setting pride aside recently, I stepped out on a limb to ask for support, for some assistance in making this journey to St. Lucia one that feels contributive and meaningful. I have been pleasantly surprised by the delight I have encountered since asking.  

I have been reminded of a few things:

1.     It takes a village.  Some folks have offered what they perceive to be “small” donations.  Well folks, each penny adds up!  Each offering amasses into something larger & builds momentum when added to the mix of bits and pieces.  I cannot do this thing called life alone.  I am deeply grateful for each and every offering of support-emotional, physical and/or financial.  Thank you!
2.     I cannot get what I do not ask for.  Hard as it may be, I encourage you all to reach out to ask for what it is that you need & desire.  You never know what or who awaits the other side of your courageous request.
3.     The art of surrender is vividly poignant in my life right now.  I have counseled so many women to do just this throughout their childbearing process.  Surrender plans, expectations, judgments, pride, and that sense that we have any “control” about how things will unfold.  I’m working on surrendering.

May this journey be full of occasions for me to find growth (gently please), to be offered reminders of why midwifery is what I choose (or is it the other way around?), to find a deeper sense of center AND to find more joy among the moments that make up my days.  

I’m looking forward to help usher earthside babies in another locale, with some new perspective on pregnancy & birth.  I am so delighted to be able to embrace this opportunity and am grateful to all those who have encouraged me to do so. 

Excited to share with you all the first installation of donations and supplies made possible by donations already received.  Not so sure if the picture is worth a thousand words... It does, however, illuminate what I have already gathered in the way of supplies to donate to Victoria Hospital.  Thank you!




In no particular order, included in the above photo: 24 receiving blankets, 1 fetoscope, 6 tape measures, 4 amniocots, 5 pregnancy wheels, 2 suture sets, 1 infant stethoscope, 1 adult stethoscope, 6 pieces vicryl suture, 3 pieces silk suture, 150 sterile gloves, sterile lubricant, tourniquets, 3 cord clamps, 15 maternity pads, three digital thermometers, 25 chux pads, 14 newborn diapers, 10 infant combs, 20 bottles baby shampoo, 2 peri bottles, 4 newborn hats, 4 surgical blades, ball point pens and one latex-free bag & mask resuscitator.